Mercy Eke says she won’t date men who expect regular cooking

Mercy Eke, former Big Brother Naija winner, said on the Toke Moments podcast that she cannot date or marry a man who expects her to cook regularly. She explained that she only cooks occasionally when she is in the mood, and if a partner wants fresh food every day they should hire a chef. Love, she said, cannot make her cook for a man daily, noting that other women are willing to do so and that marrying her means accepting overnight meals.

Her comments sparked discussion about gender roles and household responsibilities, especially among young Nigerians who look to celebrities for relationship cues. The statement highlights ongoing debates about the division of domestic labour and the expectation that women handle daily cooking in marriages or relationships.

Reflect on your own expectations around chores in partnerships. Have an open conversation with your partner about who cooks, how often, and whether hiring help or sharing duties works better for your household. Recognising compatibility includes aligning on domestic responsibilities, not just emotional connection.

SOURCE: https://dailypost.ng/2026/07/20/i-cant-date-marry-man-who-wants-me-to-cook-regularly-mercy-eke/